trustbuilding英语作文

　　保持信任（Onmaintainingtrust）
　　Asthecontemporarysocietydevelopsdramatically，aworryingproblemhassprungupthatthedegreeoftrustamonginpidualshasdecreased。Forexample，whenwemeetamanbeggingformoneyduetohishandicappedleginthestreet，weareconsideringwhetherheischeatingus。Plus，inthebusinesscircle，teasilybelievewhatthemerchanthasguaranteed。
　　Alltheseproblemsmentionedabovearereducedtoadverseconsequences。Especially，inthecorporateworldexiststheprevalenceofdishonesty。Influencedbythesephenomena，we，invariably，sguarantee，evenapieceofword。Thus，thistrenddoesmuchharmtothecommodityeconomy。
　　Theunderlyingreasonforthesephenomenaisthatcurrentpeoplefailtotrusteachother，sokeepingtrustcountsmost，becausethefoundationofanyrelationship，whetheritbewithabusinessassociate，spouse，parent，clientor，friend，istrust。Trustisnotsomethingthatcanbebuiltwithquickfixtechniques。Rather，itissomethingthatiscultivatedthroughconsistenthabitsinpersonalinteractions。
　　保持信任（Onmaintainingtrust）
　　Trustiscrucialandindispensableinmaintainingarelationship。Withouttrust，wecannotgetalongwellwithotherpeople，letalonecooperatewiththemorgethelpfromthem。Peoplearesocialanimals。Withoutinteractingwithotherpeople，lifewouldbedullandmeaningless。
　　Nowadays，。Webecomeunwillinglytobelievethegovernments，friends，colleaguesandstrangers。Thisposesagreatthreattothebuildingofaharmonioussociety。Andsometimes，weevenbelievedthatwemightbedeceivedifwetrusttoomuch。Butinoureverydaylife，ttrustotherpeople，wecouldliveintorment。Sincetrustisofgreatsignificance，whatshouldwedotoimproveoursenseoftrust？Firstofall，wecannotlietothosewhotrustus。Secondly，snevertoolatetoapologizetoothersforourmistakes。Wsmore，weshouldstrikeatrustbalancebetweenourselvesandothers。Loveall，trustafew，dowrongtonone。shouldbeourultimategoal。
　　Theperfectwaytomakeamantrustworthyistotrusthim，andtolethimknowthatyoutrusthim。
　　TwelveKeysforBuildingTrust
　　Thefoundationofanyrelationship，whetheritbewithaBusinessassociate，spouse，parent，clientor，friend，istrust。Trustisnotsomethingthatcanbebuiltwithquickfixtechniques。Rather，itissomethingthatiscultivatedthroughconsistenthabitsinyourinteractions。Thefollowingaretwelvepatternsofbehaviorthatincreasetrustinyourrelationships。
　　1。Betransparent
　　Donottrytohidethingsfromothers。Refusetohaveanyhiddenagendas。Youmightthinkyoucanpullafastoneonsomeoneelse。Yt。Mostpeoplehavegoodintuitionandeventhoughtheymaynotbeabletoconsciouslydeterminethatyouarehidingsomething，theyverylikelywillhaveanuneasyfeelingaroundyou。Iftheydontfeelcomfortablearoundyou，theywon39；tbeabletotrustyou。
　　Anothersinisteraspectofhavinghiddenagendaisthatiterodesyourabilitytotrustothers。Ytfullyforthcoming，teither。Whenyouaretrustworthy，however，youwillseeothersasmoretrustworthytoo。
　　2。Besincere
　　Thisissimilartothepreviouspoint。Onlysaywhatyoumean。Beimpeccablyhonestwithyourwords。Refusetotryandcraftyourwordstomanipulateothers。Dontgivefakecompliments，patronizeothersorsaysomethingjustbecauseyouthinkyouaresupposedto。Again，peoplehavegoodBSdetectors。Whenothersknowthatyouonlyspeakgenuinely，itincreasestheircapacitytotrustyou。Everyonelovesauthenticity。
　　3。Focusonaddingvalue
　　Inanyrelationship，alwayshavethebestinterestofothersatheart。Workhardtogiveasmuchormorethanyouget。Whenyouconsistentlyaddvaluetosomeoneslife，theynotonlyfeellikeyouareontheirside，theyalsohavetheurgetoreciprocate。InBusinessrelationships，thismeansalwaysunderpromiseandoverdeliver。Inpersonalrelationships，focusingonmeetingtheneedsoftheotherpersoninsteadoftakinginordertogetyourownneedsmet。
　　4。Bepresent
　　Ttthere。Insteadofretreatingintoyourhead，focusonlisteningtoothers。Wheneveryouarewithsomeone，makethemyourprimaryfocus。DtthinkaboutworkwhileyouareatHometalkingtoyourspouse。DtthinkaboutlifeatHomewhenyouarewithaclient。Whenitcomestorelationships，presencemeansqualitytimeandqualitytimebuildstrust。
　　5。Alwaystreatpeoplewithrespect
　　Eversincewewerelittlekids，wehavebeentaughttoberespectful。However，whenourstandardsgetviolatedorthereisnoonearoundtosee（read：wedontthinktherewillbeanyconsequences），wecanoftenengageinpettybehavior。Tsback。
　　Asinherentworthasahumanbeingentitlesthemtobetreatedwithdignity。Whenpeopleknowthatyouwillalwaystreatwiththemrespect，itisverynaturalfortrusttoflourish。
　　6。Takeresponsibility
　　Whenyoumessup，whichyouinvariablywill，bequicktocleanitup。Skiptheexcusesandjusttakeresponsibility。Justifyingandmakingexcusesmayhelpyouintheshorttermbutinthelongrun，itdoesnothingforyourcharacterortheleveloftrustyouaregiven。Accountabilityisararetraitthesedayswithmostpeoplewantingtoavoidnegativeconsequencesatallcosts。Daretobedifferentandyouwillwinthetrustofothers。
　　7。Focusonfeedback
　　Unlessyoureamindreader，theonlywayyoucanknowhowwellarelationshipisgoingisbygettingfeedbackfromtheotherperson。Bactivelyseekitout。Manypeopleareafraidtogiveyoufeedback，especiallyifitsnegative，outoffearthattheywilloffend。Askwithsincerityandrespondrespectfullyandotherswillbefarmorewilling。Takeboththepositiveandnegativeintoaccountalongwithyourownjudgmentandadjustyourbehaviouraccordingly。
　　8。Takecriticismwell
　　Learntohandlecriticismwithgrace。Insteadofgettingdefensive，considerthepossibilitythatwhattheotherpersonissayingmightbetrue。Closingyourselfofffromcriticismhastheeffectofclosingoffallcommunication。
　　Insomecases，thecriticismmayindeedbeinaccurate。Intheseinstances，youhavetheopportunitytoshowempathy。Tspointofview。Perhapsthecriticismisjustathinlyveiledattackthatstemsfromadeeperupsettheymayhavewithyou。Inthesecases，yourwillingnesstodigdeeperwithoutgettingdefensivewillcertainlyenhancethetrustintherelationship。
　　9。Setboundaries
　　Beclearabouthowyouexpectpeopletobehavearoundyou。Again，dothisinamaturemanner：besincereandrespectful。Whenyouhaveclearstandards，peopleknowexactlyhowtobehavearoundyouandthatgivesthemcertainty。Twhensomeoneknowsthattheycanttakeadvantageyouthatalleviatesthefearthatsomeoneelsewill。
　　10。Beaclassact
　　Holdyourselftoahigherastandard。Bequicktoapologizewhenyouknowyouarewrong。Onlyspeakwellofothers，eventhosewhodontspeakwellofyou。
　　Whyshouldyoudothis？First，imaginewhatitwoulddotoyoursenseofselftoknowthatotherpeopleonlyhavegoodexperienceswithyou。Second，imaginehowmuchtrustsuchbehaviourengendersinothers。Finally，theconductofotherswillimprovejustbybeingaroundyouconsistently。
　　11。Yourwordisyourbond
　　Keepallthepromisesyoumakeandensurethatyoumakepromisesonlysparingly。Makeyourwordstrongerthananywrittencontract。Refusetomakeemptypromisesandmanipulatepeople。
　　Whenapromiseyouhavemadeisnolongerbeneficialtoyou，insteadofdecidingtonotfollowthrough，attempttorenegotiatethedeal。Whenyourenegotiatetheagreement，ensurethatthenewcommitmentprovidesevenmorevaluetotheotherperson。
　　12。Beconsistent
　　Aboveall，beconsistentinyourbehavior。Dtengageinthebehavioronceinawhilewhenitseemsconvenient。Yourconsistencyisthekeytoyourtrustworthiness。Smallactionsaddupandatrackrecordofhighcharacterisinvaluableinanyrelationship。Becomeintenselyprinciplecenteredandtrustwillfolloweasilyandconsistently。